I suspect my husband of having more than professional feelings towards his boss....?

Regarding the office honey, I,d keep my concerns to myself, as it will only make you appear weak and jealous in the eyes of your hubby, not to mention, I think he may even tell his office honey that your finding her a threat, and you dont want to give this woman the satisfaction of knowing that you are jealous of her as this will only feed her ego and actually make your husband even more attractive to her. So keep it hush/hush. But do not turn a blind eye to the situation either, I really do see a problem that may just turn into more than office flirtation. And remember, even though you may see your marriage as wonderful and the is great, etc, this may not be how he feels? Men are so difficult to understand, but I do understand us women, so Id do everything in my power to make darn sure this office honey does not leave town with my husband!